现代心理学研究发现:孩子的成长,特别是一些优秀的心理品质,如:坚持、责任、勇气等,均都是在父亲的鼓励和积极参与下培养起来的。可是现如今,社会中成长起来的计划生育后的第一代独生子女“85后”已经开始为人父了,他们思想独特,正在颠覆传统父亲的角色,他们以自己这一代人的方式来对待自己的孩子,但是其中也存在着问题与弊端,“丧偶式婚姻”这个名词的诞生,更让这些问题与弊端受到全社会的广泛关注。 Modern psychology research found that: the growth of children, especially some excellent psychological qualities, such as: perseverance, responsibility, courage, are all developed with the encouragement and active participation of their father. Today, however, the first generation of only-child children after the birth of family planning, which grew up in the community, have started to become fathers. They are unique in thinking and are overthrowing the role of traditional fathers. By their own generation, they have come Treat their own children, but there are also problems and drawbacks, “the birth of the wedlock marriage ”, leaving these problems and drawbacks by the whole society wide attention.