上中学的时候,我和班里的另一个同学竞争班长的职务,为了拉拢同学给我投票,我把一些同学请到家里,并说了我的竞争对手很多坏话。父亲听到了我的话,他当时说了一句话:“当你用食指对着别人背后指指点点时,你是否注意到你其他的三个手指正指着自己,并且以三倍的力量在还击你!”曾经随父亲去参加过一个远房亲戚的葬礼,所有人都对死者的家属说一些“节哀顺变”之类的安慰话。父亲却拍着逐渐壮实起 When I was in high school, I was competing with another classmate in my class for the position monitor. In order to win over my classmates to vote for me, I invited some of my classmates home and said a lot of bad things about my competitors. My father heard me. He said something at the time: “When you point your finger at the back of someone with your index finger, have you noticed that the other three fingers are pointing at you and are three times as powerful Fight back you! ”“ I used to go to a funeral with a distant relative with my father. Everyone spoke to the families of the deceased about some sort of comforting phrase like ”cynicism". My father started patting up gradually