人际交往的四个境界:一是惹不起躲得起,跑出去,最后问题还摆那里;二是非要争个胜负,非要自己胜利。三是为了对方而忍让,希望借此让对方接纳,结果可能让对方变本加厉。四是敢于面对甚至冲突,试图解决问题。我越来越相信,第四种方法最为合理。很多问题,你躲也躲不掉,让也让不 The four realms of interpersonal communication: First, can not afford to afford to hide can not afford to run out, the final problem still put there; the second is to fight a winner, we must own victory. Third, for the sake of each other and forbearance, hoping to allow each other to accept, the result may make the other party intensified. Fourth, dare to face or even conflict, trying to solve the problem. I believe more and more that the fourth method is the most reasonable. Many problems, you hide can not hide, so let too