常常会收到一些看上去让人觉得很好笑的群众来信。有观众说:“在职场,就要表现得强硬一些。哪怕你心里再害怕,表面上也要撑得住,这样大家才不会欺负你,你才能保持住面子和形象。”当你觉得自己处于一个糟糕的境遇时,装着坚强,不在乎,就能让所有人察觉不出什么来吗?这只是在欺骗自己,给自己一个心理安慰和暗示罢了。弱势时,真 I often receive letters from people who seem very funny. An audience said: “in the workplace, we must show some tough, even if you are scared of fear, ostensibly have to hold on, so that we will not bully you, you can keep the face and the image. ” When you When you think you are in a bad situation, with a strong, carefree person, can you let everyone know nothing? This is just deceiving yourself and giving yourself a sense of comfort and suggestion. When weak, really