为了获得一个朋友,你首先应是一个朋友,应从自己做起。最大的美德是好心肠。你不可能去爱每一个人,但可以对每一个人表现善意。不要试图给别人以强烈印象,应让别人愿意给你以强烈印象。持乐观态度,乐观的人对他人有吸引力;相反,悲观的人使别人反感到敬而远之。努力去倾听对方的 In order to get a friend, you should first be a friend and start from yourselves. The greatest virtue is kindness. You can not love everyone, but you can show goodwill toward everyone. Do not try to give a strong impression to others, let others be willing to give you a strong impression. Optimistic, optimistic people are attractive to others; on the contrary, pessimistic people make others feel disgusted at arm’s length. Try to listen to each other