记得女儿刚上初中时,课业负担很重,有时写作业会到很晚,我想知道什么原因。观察后我发现她写作业时,有时会用纸叠个小飞机,或者做个小动物。我当时很生气,冲过去把她的“小作品”统统撕个粉碎,女儿大哭起来,开始我想说服她,可她还是哭,我越说她越哭,我就狠狠地拽住了她并举起了手,小家伙的哭声马上止住了,瞪着让我看不懂的眼神,说出了令我吃惊的话:“爸爸请放手,我自己能学好!”这句话把我给震住了。是啊!作为爸爸,一个自以 I remember my daughter just attending junior high school, the heavy burden of homework, and sometimes writing homework will be late, I want to know why. After observing, I found that when she wrote her homework, she occasionally used a small paper airplane or a small animal. When I was very angry, rushed to put her “little work ” all ripped smash, my daughter burst into tears, I began to want to convince her, but she still cry, the more I said she cried, I fiercely pulled Live her and raised his hand, the little guy stopped crying, staring at the eyes I can not understand, said something surprised me: “Dad let go, I can learn!” Sentences shocked me. Yes, as a father, a self