男人对于婚姻的恐惧,都是因为这些形形色色的负载、假借爱情与道德的名义、用苛刻的世俗标准作为日后行为准绳、缺乏人文关怀的各方压力。讲究排场的婚宴,首当其冲成为罪恶开始的第一道门。 Men's fear of marriage is due to all these kinds of loads, under the guise of love and morality, with harsh secular standards as a yardstick of future behavior and lack of pressure from all parties involved in humanistic care. Pay attention to show the wedding, bear the brunt of the first door to the beginning of evil.