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嫉妒之心,人皆有之。这种负面情绪几乎是与生俱来的。据研究人员发现,3个月大的婴儿已经表现出明显的嫉妒心理。孩子的嫉妒会呈现出种种奇怪的状态,以致让没经验的人不知所措,比如撒娇、贪心、不安、乖僻、自卑、神经质、打架、粗暴、夜尿、偏食、咬指甲、吮吸手指头等,都是由嫉妒衍生出来的种种问题。有些家长认为这种表现会随着孩子年龄的增长而自然消失,但专家指出,过分的妒嫉会影响孩子正常的心理发育,使他们在自己与别人的对比中感到自卑,妨碍孩子自信心和自尊心的建立,因此,家长应该在孩子达到上学年龄之前教会他们如何克服这种情绪。
Jealous heart, everyone has it. This negative emotion is almost inherent. According to researchers, 3-month-old infants have shown obvious jealousy. Children’s jealousy will show all kinds of strange conditions, so that inexperienced people overwhelmed, such as spoiled, greedy, restless, perverse, inferiority, nervousness, fighting, crude, nocturia, partial eclipse, bitten nails, sucking fingers, All are derived from jealousy problems. Some parents think this performance will disappear naturally with the growth of children’s age, but experts point out that excessive envy will affect children’s normal psychological development, so that they feel inferior in comparison with others, hinder children’s self-confidence and Therefore, parents should teach their children how to overcome such emotions before they reach school age.