有些身居高位者颐指气使,飞扬跋扈,对下属动辄斥责怒骂,不给下属留面子,看似很爽,其实是很危险的事,为这事倒霉甚至掉脑袋的人可不少。公元前682年夏天,被俘的宋国大将南宫万回国。宋湣公在与南宫万出猎时屡屡戏弄他,两人下棋,湣公讽刺他说:“最初我很敬重你,今天,你只不过是鲁国的一个俘虏。”南宫万连负几盘,湣公更得意了,说:“囚乃常败之家,安敢复与寡人赌胜?”南宫万脸上就有些 Some of those who are high in the crowd point out, domineering, subordinates often rave reviews, not to subordinates to stay face, seemingly very cool, in fact, very dangerous, for the sake of this bad luck or a lot of people. In the summer of 682 BC, the captured Song State General Nangong Wan returned to China. In the same time, Song Xiong Gong repeatedly teased him when hunting with the Nangong Palace. Both played chess, saying: “At first I respected you, today, you are only a captive of the Lugu State.” , 湣 public more proud, said: “prisoners are often defeated home, dare to complex and Guaren gamble?”