我在美国一个培训班学习时,问美国的同学,如果他们的孩子作出的选择不符合父母的意愿时,比如发现孩子早恋了怎么办?他们讲出了许多办法,其中一位母亲的那种“放任法”给我留下了深刻的印象。有一天,43岁的秀,向全班宣布她的儿子已经和他的女朋友分手时哈哈大笑的神态,让我感到奇怪。教室里的其他人都充满了好奇,不久我就知道了这背后的故事。 When I was studying in a training course in the United States, I asked American classmates what to do if their children made choices that did not meet the wishes of their parents, such as when they found out that their children had a puppy love. Many of them said that one of the mothers “Let the law ” left a deep impression on me. One day, I was surprised at the 43-year-old show announcing to the class her laughter when her son broke up with his girlfriend. The rest of the classroom was full of curiosity and soon I knew the story behind it.