为什么说搞不懂辩证法,你就搞不懂恋爱和婚姻?有一个男孩叫李雷,有一个女孩叫韩梅梅,这两个人从小到大一直是好朋友,后来谈了恋爱,决定结婚。那么请问,按照你上学时学过的辩证法的规律,“婚姻关系”是“恋人关系”的自我否定吗?按照课本上教的,辩证法有三个阶段,就是肯定、否定、否定之否定。我们可以把“朋友关系”理解为辩证法规律中的第一个阶段,也就是肯定阶段。后来两个 Why do you not understand dialectics, you do not understand love and marriage? There is a boy named Li Lei, a girl named Han Meimei, who have been good friends since childhood, then talked about love, decided to get married. Then, according to the law of dialectics you learned in school, “marriage relationship” is a self-denial of “lover’s relationship.” According to the textbook teaching, there are three stages of dialectics, that is, positive, negative, negative negative. We can understand “friend relations” as the first stage in the law of dialectics, that is, in the affirmative stage. Two later