Q女儿4岁半,非常喜欢童话,也一直相信有圣诞老人,每年都很期待圣诞礼物,还会给圣诞老人写信。但是幼儿园的老师告诉孩子们,圣诞老人是假的,礼物其实也是父母买来送的,女儿听了很失落,回家问我们。我不知道老师为什么要这么对孩子说,我们到底该不该告诉孩子圣诞老人是假的呢?如果孩子相信圣诞老人,那么,成人最好不要说破,而要帮孩子保留这个美好的想法。虽然孩子长大后,迟早都会明白,但是,在儿时关 Q daughter 4 years and a half, very much like the fairy tale, has always believed that there are Santa Claus, every year looking forward to Christmas gifts, but also to write a letter to Santa Claus. But the kindergarten teacher told the children, Santa Claus is fake, the gift is actually bought by the parents to send, daughter is very lost, go home and ask us. I do not know why the teacher said so to the child: Should we tell the child that Santa Claus is fake? If the child believes Santa Claus, then adults should not be broken at all, but to help the child retain this wonderful idea. Although the children grow up, sooner or later will understand, however, in childhood off