好的教育方法——既能够为孩子所接受的教育方法同样可以为我们成年人所接受。因为孩子的心理和我们成人的心理在本质上有相通之处,只是孩子的心理更稚嫩、承受能力更弱罢了。通常每人都有一种奇妙的心理,对于自己预料的事,如果如期发生,他便不会改变自己的行动,而反复犯同样的错误,小孩也是这样。如果犯错后受到斥责,他觉得是意料之中的事,反而会放下心来,就好像父母的责骂已经抵销了自己的过失一样,很快忘记这次错误的教训。如果父母在他犯错时保持适当沉默 Good educational methods - educational methods that are both acceptable to children can also be accepted by our grown-ups. Because the child’s psychology and our adult psychology in essence have similarities, but the child’s psychological immaturity, affordability Bale. Often each person has a fantastic mood that, for what he or she anticipates, he will not change his actions if he does so, and repeat the same mistakes, as do children. If he was rebuked after making a mistake, he felt it was an expected event, and instead he would relieve his heart as if his parents’ scolding had already offset his own negligence and soon forgotten the wrong lesson. If parents remain silent when he makes mistakes