如果一个孩子从小就没有培养起健全、足够的安全感,那么成年后心理上的缺陷将可能无法完全修复。有些宝宝很依恋大人,尤其特别缠妈妈。每天妈妈去上班的时候,简直是一场拉锯战:宝宝堵在门口一边哭一边拉着妈妈的衣服,就是不让妈妈走。一看到妈妈打扮穿衣服,就做起了妈妈的小尾巴,从房间跟到客厅,又从客厅跟到卫生间,一副誓死跟随的模样,嘴里还念念有词:妈妈,你要去哪里?我也要去。 If a child does not develop a healthy, adequate sense of security, mental deficiencies in adulthood may not be completely repaired. Some babies are very attached to adults, especially wrapped around mom. Every day my mother went to work, it was a tug of war: the baby stuck in the door while crying while pulling her mother’s clothes, that is, not to let my mother go. When I saw my mother dressed and dressed, she started her mother’s little tail, from the room to the living room, from the living room to the bathroom, followed by a vow of death. There was a saying in his mouth: Mom, where are you going? Have to go.