年轻时怕寂寞,年老时望独处。在朋友圈看到一个朋友写了一句话,朋友三十五岁,刚有了孩子,他说:逐渐了解到,为什么许多男人每次回到家,都要在车里坐一会儿,抽上一根烟了。因为回到家,你就变成了爸爸,变成了丈夫,你是顶梁柱,是擎天柱,是穆铁柱,就是不是自己。看到朋友写的这句话,心里很酸。我特别能理解一个人随着自己长大的路上,对独处的渴望。随着有了事业,有了团队,有了家庭,责任感强了,独处的时间 Young afraid of loneliness, looking young alone. I saw a friend wrote a sentence in the circle of friends, a friend of thirty-five years old, just had a child, he said: Gradually understand why many men come home every time, have to sit in the car for a while, smoking a cigarette It’s Because back home, you become a father, become a husband, you are the pillar, is Optimus Prime, is Mu Tiezhu, it is not myself. See my friend wrote this sentence, my heart is sour. In particular, I can understand the longing for solitude in the way that one grows with oneself. With a career, a team, a family, strong sense of responsibility, alone time