杨医师:您好!冒昧给您写信是要向您请教一个问题。我和丈夫是自由恋爱结婚,婚前恩恩爱爱,如胶似漆,可是婚后,我在他的心目中就不那么重要了,什么事都顾着他的父母和弟妹,甚至不顾家里的困难,资助妹妹读书。为此,我们经常争吵,现已到了快要离婚的边缘,只是因为都舍不得可爱的儿子,才没有上法院。我现在很苦恼,不知该怎么办?湖南小符 Dr. Yang: Hi, take the liberty to write a letter to ask you a question. My husband and I are free to love marriage, love and love before marriage, glue, but after marriage, I was not so important in his mind, and everything is taking care of his parents and siblings, and even despite the difficulties at home, funding sister reading. For this reason, we often quarrel, and now we are on the brink of divorce. Only because we are so reluctant to have lovely sons did we go to court. I am very distressed, I do not know how to do?