眼里永远是容不下沙子的。当我们像爱护眼睛一样爱护婚姻时,“进沙”的感觉当然非常痛苦。而多疑,或许就是那颗“眼里砂”。在心理学上,多疑是由主观推测而产生的不信任心理,也是一种自我暗示的心理。在婚姻咨询中,多疑是婚姻中最常见的“杀手”之一,在不同性别、年龄的夫妻中都可能发生,给夫妻双方、给婚姻生活带来持续的伤痛。 The eyes will never tolerate the sand. When we love marriage as we love our eyes, the feeling of “going to the sand” is of course very painful. The suspicious, perhaps that sink “eyes of sand ”. In psychology, suspiciousness is the mistrust created by subjective speculation and also a self-suggestive psychology. In marriage counseling, suspiciousness is one of the most common “killers” in marriage. It can happen to couples of different sexes and ages, and gives both spouses a constant pain in marriage.