在教学中,有的教师在孩子面前不自觉地变得“高大”(甚至妄自尊大)起来,动不动就向孩子灌输自己老于世故的说教,粗暴地控制、干预甚至按照自己的一厢情愿强行改变儿童的认知世界。作为新时期的教师,我们必须更新教育观念,为学生创设良好的学习氛围,构建良好的人际关系,让他们从小生活学习在民主的环境里,首当其冲的是应摆正师生的关系。教师应该视学生为朋友,为亲人,这就是所谓的以生为本的理念。善待学生应为新世纪教师的从教之德。 In teaching, some teachers unconsciously become “tall” (or even arrogant) in front of children, and they infuse their old age-old preaching into their children at every moment. They rudely control and intervene, and even force children's cognition to change according to their wishful thinking world. As teachers in the new era, we must update our educational concepts, create a good learning environment for students, build good interpersonal relationships so that they can learn from their own lives in a democratic environment, and bear the brunt of the relationship between teachers and students. Teachers should regard students as friends and relatives. This is the so-called idea of ​​giving birth to students. Treat students should be the moral of teaching in the new century.