中国改革开放30多年以来,物质文明达到了一个前所未有的高度,家庭教育的投入是空前的。但如今中国的父母有一个很大的误区,认为只要把学习搞好,别的什么都不用管。而真正需要重视的部分,比如人品的部分、素质的部分却常常被忽略。一个前所未有的怪诞现象是:大人的双休日,成了孩子的学习日,孩子跟着父母去学钢琴,学英语,学电脑,学绘画,学舞蹈……似乎教育的重心只在技术和技巧,这表面看抓教育抓得很紧,其实是把真正的教育忽略了。这远远脱离了教育的本意。这 Since the reform and opening up in China more than 30 years ago, the material civilization has reached an unprecedented height. The investment in family education is unprecedented. But now parents in China have a big misunderstanding that they should not care about anything else they do as long as they do a good job in learning. The real need to pay attention to the part, such as character parts, the quality of the part is often overlooked. An unprecedented grotesque phenomenon: adult weekend, became a child’s learning day, the children followed their parents to learn the piano, learning English, learning to paint, learn to dance ... ... It seems that the focus of education only in technology and skills, this surface Grasp the education grasp is very tight, in fact, is to neglect the real education. This is far from the original intention of education. This