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一个朋友刚从国外回来,刚入国门,来不及休息片刻,立刻忙碌起来,祭起一面鲜艳的旗帜,奔走相告:夫妻间应该实行AA制。他所标榜的内容其实很简单:两个人,一男一女,两情相悦,结婚。结婚,双宿双飞,但彼此的经济分清楚,AA制。买房,一人出一半,买车,一人出一半,孩子上学,一人出一半,吃饭,一人出一半……总之首要地位明算帐,互不亏,互不欠。我是一个结婚四年的人,在我个人的意见里,这位仁兄的慷慨陈辞简直就是一派胡言,拿着鸡毛当令箭。在我们安定的生活中,如斯的AA制是万万使不得的。婚姻决不只是爱情自然的归宿,婚姻是一种不得已而形成的一种制度,以便为我们伟大的爱情收拾残局。所以,婚姻也是人类最英明又最无奈的抉择。
A friend just came back from abroad, just entering the country, no time to rest for a moment, immediately busy, offering a bright flag, running around to tell: the husband and wife should implement the AA system. His advertised content is actually very simple: two people, one man and one woman, two gracious, married. Married, twinning, but each other’s economy clearly, AA system. Buy a house, half of one, buy a car, one half out of half, children go to school, one half out of half, eat, one out of half ... ... In short, the primary position of clear accounts, mutual non-loss, mutual owe. I am a married four years, in my personal opinion, this man’s generous speech is simply nonsense, holding feathers as the arrow. In our stable life, so the AA system is absolutely not allowed. Marriage is by no means just the natural end of love. Marriage is a system that is a last resort, so as to clean up the mess for our great love. Therefore, marriage is also the wisest and most helpless choice for mankind.