说起家庭幸福美满,人们常会用类似的语言来描述:夫妻两人相敬如宾,几十年没红过脸、吵过架。很多人觉得,争吵会让人与人之间的关系变得疏离和对立。所以,无论是在夫妻关系,还是亲子关系中,忍耐、避免发脾气、不直接表达自己的真实想法,是一些家庭的生活常态。然而,在我看来,这种不争吵的状态是一种伪幸福,因为家人之间丧失了很多表达自我和理解对方的机会。具体到家庭教育方面,有一种情况很值得父母思考,那就是遇到问题时,一些孩子不 Speaking of happy family, people often use a similar language to describe: the couple respected guests, red face decades, noisy frame. Many people think that the quarrel will make the relationship between people alienated and antagonistic. Therefore, it is the normal life of some families, whether in husband-wife relationship or in parent-child relationship, to endure patience, avoid losing one’s temper, and not directly express one’s own true thoughts. However, it seems to me that such an unarguable state is a kind of false happiness because there is a lot of lost opportunity between family members to express themselves and to understand each other. Specific to family education, there is a situation that is worth pondering parents, that is encountered some problems, some children do not