一位高中生的母亲,接连几天都无法拨通妇女热线:403.3383的电话,于是寄来了一封信,谈了她的苦恼。她在信中说:“我的孩子是个高中学生,我们对他的学习提了些要求,为此与孩子发生了冲撞,我爱人一气之下说了句:”若你不服从大人管教,你就离开这个家。’孩子明确表示不服从管教(最近阶段时有表现),拿了自己的学习、生活用品离家而去。孩子出走了,我们心也碎了。经过打听,现已知孩子的住处,我已在外面与他交谈了一次,但他并不认为自己有错。我们认为孩子不认识自己的问题,将来更不好管。孩子已出走数日,他在外我们是不放心的,一旦失控后果不堪设想。现在该怎么办?!“ A high school student’s mother, unable to dial the women’s hotline 403.3383 after several days in succession, sent a letter detailing her distress. She said in the letter: ”My child is a high school student, we made some demands on his study, to this end collided with the child, I love angrily said: “ If you do not obey adult discipline, you Leave this home. ’Children clearly expressed obedience to discipline (the performance of the most recent stage), took their own learning, daily necessities away from home. The child is gone, our heart is broken. After inquiring, I already knew the child’s place of residence and I had talked to him outside, but he did not think he was wrong. We think children do not know their own problems and will be harder to control in the future. Children have been away for a few days, he is outside we are not assured, once the consequences of uncontrolled unthinkable. what should I do now?!”