说起和孩子沟通困难,家长们都感到十分苦恼。他们说很想了解孩子在想什么,在干什么,可孩子从外面回来,和家长只有问答式的对话,很少有真正的交流。而孩子也觉得与家长无话可说。记者问一位初一学生为什么不愿和父母说说心里话。孩子说:“我在自己的屋里贴了一张球星的照片,我妈进屋后就说,你整天看这些有什么用,这个球星染的头发那么黄,多恶心。我觉得我妈根本不了解我,我喜欢的她根本不感兴趣。” Speaking of difficulties with their children, parents are very distressed. They say they really want to know what their children are thinking, what they are doing, they can come back from outside and have only a quiz dialogue with their parents. There is very little real exchange. And children also feel that there is nothing to talk about with their parents. Reporter asked why a first-year students do not want to talk to their parents heartily. The child said: “I posted a picture of a star in my room and when my mom came in, he said,” What are you looking at all these days? The dyed hair is so yellow and disgusting. “I think my mom She did not understand me at all, and I was not interested in anything she liked. ”