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以前看过一篇苏联英雄传记,有一个章节记得特别清楚,说的是英雄小的时候,一家人在晚饭后有一个特别的时刻,全家人不说话,只用纸笔交流。交流的内容有对白天看过的书的感想;有跟小伙伴闹别扭想不开的事情;也有对人对事的看法和意见;更有自己对未来的设想。在各种信息高速发展的今天,这种沉默的时刻可能已经成为了一种奢侈,但不知您是否发现。忙碌的人们常常使用的便条也许会在无意间给您和孩子带来意想不到的交流效果。1.纸笔交流可以选择每天固定的时间,如晚饭后,内容可以与孩子就双方一天中某些事情的感受交换意见。这样有助于父母及时了解孩子的所思所想;2.利用留言的形式进行,这种形式最适合表达双方的情意;3.当父母发现孩子在生活中或在学校里做了什么
I read a biography of the Soviet Heroes before. One of the chapters remembers that it was clear when the hero was young. The family had a special moment after dinner. The whole family did not speak but used only paper and pen to communicate. The content of the conversation includes thoughts on books read during the day, things that can not be done without a partner, thoughts and opinions about people and things, and more about my vision for the future. At a time of rapid growth of all kinds of information, this moment of silence may have become a luxury, but I wonder if you have found it. Busy people often use note may inadvertently give you and your child to bring unexpected results. 1. Pen and paper exchange can choose a fixed time every day, such as after dinner, the content can be with children about the feelings of certain things in a day to exchange views. This will help parents to keep abreast of their children’s thoughts and thoughts; 2. Make use of the message form, which is most suitable to express the affection of both parties; 3. When parents find out what their child has done in life or in school